Di'lar vestai-Dok'marr was born on the outer worlds, she grew up in a human household after her mother and Ambassador father K’lford were sent to Romulas to secure negotiations after the Khitomar massacre.  The Romulans without any honor took her mother B’tar captive after shooting her father in the back.  Taking up arms, B’tar killed many Romulan Pata’s as she escaped to a scout ship, but was lost in space to the empire and her daughter for many years.  Di’Larh was taken-in by B’ti, a human Ambassador for Star Fleet and Honor Warrior among the Klin-zi, raised Di’larh as her own daughter.

She meet Krum and became aware in a Bloody instant that this was the mate for her.  After many away missions together they were united as one heart during Klingon Kon in Jacksonville.  Long time friend  Captain KheTara preformed the ceremony.

In 2000 she left Flek’lars Hoof along with her mate Krum to pilot the newest ship of the fleet, the IKV WidowMaker.  Krum and Di’larh were joined by one of the most influential Klingons in the quadrant, Ambassador B'ti epitai-Urussig the Line Lord of the Urussig family and Di’Larhs’ adopted mother.  B’ti placed her safety with Krum and his crew.

Di’Larh was elected  Fleet Operations officer for K.L.A.W.'s 4th Fleet  in 2001 and and is currently serving in her second term.

In 2007, Khe’Tara honored Di’Larh by sponsoring her to the elite group, know as the Ghopbe, once again uniting the two blood sisters.

Although Di’Larh was raised in homes of ambassadors, she prefers actions over words. You will find her at many of the Klingon and Non-Klingon gathering working to secure that there is more FUN than FIGHT.